When I was young, I didn’t even have the ability to get close to a girl, no way. He didn’t even send notes, he was shy and embarrassed. Every time I tried, he would make me nervous and crazy, and I would just walk away. All days the same. It wasn’t until I saw one of the cool guys talking to a girl that I realized something. It was like he didn’t care at all. She constantly didn’t care what was going on around her.
He wasn’t afraid to talk to anyone. I once saw him flirting directly with a teacher. This guy was cocky and an idiot. However, the ladies loved him. I was amazed by this. He didn’t have to do anything, he didn’t even try. But why? Why did it work so well for him? Was it charming good looks? No. Was it a witty sense of humor? No. Oh… And at that moment it hit me. Confidence. He was more sure of himself than he had ever seen anyone.
That’s all in a nutshell. So simple, yet so troublesome. So you don’t have confidence? You obviously don’t or you wouldn’t be here thinking of ways to talk to girls. Well, what you have to do is get help from someone who has it under control.
I definitely have it under control and would like to help, so what I tell people is my simple method, the OLD FRIEND method.
This method is simple and will help a lot. Imagine you have a friend you haven’t seen in a long time. Think back to the last time it happened, try to think of the conversation, the small talk, and some of the questions.
Now replace that friend with a random girl in your head. Treat her like an old friend, ask her questions about her life. What she thinks she’s going to do with her life, simple questions like that are a great way to build rapport, and the old friend method is a great way to change her mind.
This is just the first step you need to take to make it easier for you to talk to girls whenever you feel like it. Building your confidence may take some time, but I guarantee the results will be worth it. So keep trying until you succeed.
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