Women at 40, are in the middle of life, have a job, may be married or have children and have gained a lot of experience over time. But over the years, self-doubts also grow. When looking in the mirror, some women no longer see the sexy seductress from back then, but the wife, the mother. You will see stretch marks, dents, wrinkles and the first gray strands of hair. Compliments and flirtations become less. If you still felt young, firm and desirable in your early / mid-30s, it suddenly seems as if you are no longer seen.