How many of you have cried while making love or, on the other hand, witnessed the cry of your partner while making love? Then maybe you asked him why he was crying. Could he give you an answer? Ladies, did you even know where those tears came from?
In order for you to first understand why I was crying, we will have to explore the world of energy, better known as Energy Wellness. According to quantum physics, everything is made of energy. Even solid-looking objects are made of energy that is in constant motion moving at a very slow rate. Humans consume food to store and process energy. We exercise to circulate energy for fitness. Doctors use various biofeedback machines, such as X-rays, to understand certain human conditions that work through energy through electromagnetic frequencies.
The human body, when considering the physical systems (circulatory, digestive, muscular, etc.) and the subtle bodies (aura, chakras, nadis, etc.) is made up of more than 20 energy systems. These energy systems dictate the physical, emotional and spiritual health of an individual. When a person experiences trauma or emotional disturbance, the human body responds or reacts based on that person’s belief system. Emotions, if they are not transmuted into something higher or more positive, will lodge in any area of the body since emotions carry a vibrational frequency equivalent to organs, glands, tissues or muscles.
In the case of the sexual reproductive organs, they house a particular energy center in the body known as the Svadhisthana chakra. Svadhisthana is Sanskrit and means “place of residence of the self”. Chakra means “spinning wheels of light”. We have various chakras (pronounced chuk-ruh) throughout our bodies that absorb energy from the planet and the universe, so with this one in particular it has everything to do with procreation, creativity, how we associate with the world, and our perspective on ourselves within the world. It is also associated with the element of water and is therefore related to our circulatory system, urine, menstruation, and tears.
Most women tend to put others before themselves. Woman’s dreams and aspirations are often left in the background or never pursued. The most profound statistics state that 1 in 6 women have been victims of an attempted rape or a complete rape and 1 in 3 are victims of domestic violence. In addition to that, many women suffer from endometriosis, cysts, fibroids, hysterectomies, and other reproductive problems that further demonstrate the imbalance of energies found within the walls of the uterus.
All of the above problems affect the esteem and image of women at the subconscious level. In events where emotions are high, intense, or extreme, the subconscious is programmed with the thought and emotion of that event. Emotional memory is stored in the brain’s limbic system and the emotional trigger (which causes a person to react rather than respond) is stored in the body’s cellular memory. There are various methods and techniques available to release negative thoughts and emotions associated with past events, but very few people put these methods and techniques into practice.
With sexual intimacy, it is a time when emotions are raised due to the display of passion and the stimulation of the main energy centers of the body (chakras). Because the energy was made to circulate throughout the body and not stop, some women experience a buildup of energy known as ORGASM. The orgasmic energy, with its procreative power, will push through those pent-up emotions as the energy itself has to release itself and because the woman is in a heightened state of consciousness and her subconscious is completely open and fully attuned to the innate wisdom of the body. , she starts making sounds. Sounds are the direct expression of one’s own body and with precision, she lulls into the key, releasing the vibratory imprint of past emotions (energy in motion) that has been stored within the walls of her uterus. Folks: this is truly sexual healing at its finest! When he reaches that point where he can no longer control facial expressions or body movements and he lets go and surrenders to Spirit (what? Did you think he was surrendering to you? No, you are just the vehicle through which the Spirit operates.), tears flow. On a scientific level, this means that the parasympathetic branch of the autonomic nervous system has stimulated the lacrimal glands through neurotransmitters and receptors. The lacrimal glands are responsible for producing tears. So in a nutshell, your body basically told itself that it was time to release those emotions. The wisdom of your body knows and understands why and does exactly what it needs to, without our permission. We just keep up and let good love be.
The thing about emotional healing is that once you open up emotionally and shed your tears, you have to reprogram what you want to experience in that moment. The subconscious is completely open and all the energy channels of your body are ready to receive a replacement for the negative emotions that you have just released. You see, the truth of the matter is that energy is not really “released”, it just changes from one form to another. This is better known as transmutation. Sexual healing and the power of orgasm give you the opportunity to rewrite your life. It gives you the opportunity to see life from a different perspective. You can vocalize your new choice or internalize it and send that feeling throughout your body. Later that day, when you’re done making love, or if he’s been gone until the wee hours of the morning, the next day, take some time to reinforce your decision. This will help you, the woman, have a stronger and healthier relationship with you and your partner.
For men who are true passionate lovers and are not afraid to surrender to Divine Love and express themselves, all of the above applies to you as well. This is part of your Energetic Wellbeing and as such you also have the right to walk in your power.