We have all been there… One day we are in love and things seem to be going very well, suddenly it happens. We went through a breakup and found ourselves alone and feeling pretty miserable thinking of ways to get an ex back.
Unfortunately, more often than not, the decisions and actions we take are wrong and counterproductive. They push our ex away instead of toward us and we can’t seem to figure out why.
Well let me tell you why. When a breakup happens, one partner is mad at the other for whatever reason and if you try to chase and impose on your ex with phone calls and emails, it will keep them mad at you. You need to allow some time for things to settle down before you can do a calm analysis of what went wrong and how to fix it.
Use your time apart to find yourself again and discover the joy you used to have doing the things you loved before dating your ex. Go to the movies, go with friends or to the gym or to the park. Don’t stay home wallowing.
Don’t pressure your ex to do anything. Let them be. Once enough time has passed, let them know how you feel about them and that you are interested in getting an ex back.
If things are meant to be this way, you need to find a way to communicate with your ex effectively and start dating again.