Being desperate and making a plague of yourself by constantly trying to make contact with your ex after your breakup will do only one thing and that is ruin any chance you have of getting back together. However, coming across as nonchalant about the breakup will definitely increase your chances of getting your ex back.
You see your ex expects you to be sitting there crying and being morbid over the breakup. Now if you do the opposite and give your ex the impression that the breakup is not making you fall into the pits of depression, you will definitely make your ex sit up and take notice. Do this long enough and your chances of getting your ex back will increase.
Take this indifference even further by taking care of yourself. People often get carried away when their relationship ends. Your ex thinks this is what you are going to do too, because you are so devastated by the breakup. Again, prove your ex wrong by doing the opposite and do everything you can to look like a million dollars. Buy new clothes if necessary, go to the gym to work out to lose those few pounds you may have picked up, get a massage, get a makeover, anything that improves your appearance and gets your ex to notice you again.
Another thing your ex thinks you will do right now is lock yourself away from the world because you are in such a state of misery. Shock your ex by hanging out with your friends and have fun, just make sure you look fantastic when you’re with them. Both your friends and your ex will wonder what the hell you are doing. Believe it or not, but this is another big step towards success in getting your ex back.
By then, your ex will have completely overcome the breakup and will be thinking a lot about you, even more because of your indifference. Curiosity about your behavior and the desire to see you again will be the motivation for your ex to get in touch with you. Now it’s a matter of time before you get your ex back.