Many of us men have tried or are using online dating sites trying to find the ideal partner. Many of us are sincere seekers of this type of woman! Our email alerts us that a woman has sent us a message on said site and, if the message has one, there is a photo of an attractive woman, usually young. So of course we click the link or open our browsers to see what it said. This person’s bio says she’s from Birmingham, AL or San Francisco, or Vancouver … any relatively normal place for a woman to live in North America.
For any of us remotely literate, we notice that English is poor … nothing like American or Canadian, but we keep reading anyway. He says things like “I have been described as sexy” or “I am looking for that man who loves me and treats me like a queen” or “I have been abused horribly and I am looking for someone who treats me” I well “or” I read your biography and I saw your photo and I think we would make a nice couple “, things that attract us for various reasons, since our needs and desires and what we will attract varies a lot from one man to another. man.
These Bios are a siren call and, like the Greek hero Ulysses and his men, many of us simply cannot resist. Like fools, we keep reading anyway … even though that little voice inside us (the voice that has saved my ass so many times when I’ve bothered to listen to it) you all know that voice too, I’m sure. ) is sounding little alarms like “But the writing is SO bad …” or “Okay … this is too good to be true!” or, if you’re over 50 like me, “What the hell would someone so young do, (say 22, 21, 31, 28 – pick a number, they’re all there!) and who’s as lovely as this one wants with a? 55 year old old man like me? “I mean come on guys … we probably all still think we’re just as lovely in our golden years as we were when we were considerably younger, but BE REAL! The alarms are REALLY ringing NOW! But like I said, (ahem!) We keep reading and maybe then decide to respond.
Messages may already contain an address for Yahoo Messenger or MSN Live or one of the other popular chat engines, or through your back and forth correspondence (and they will reply to you), you will eventually get a contact address for these engines. chat. Okay … here’s another red flag … if the greeting message you originally received takes you to his bio and the chat messenger’s contact information is there for all to see … how many other guys do you think? who received this same? generic message? Anyway, then we add that person as a contact … AND THERE IT IS !! LIVE !! We open a dialog box to talk to her with a “Hi … how are you … I’m Bob …” or whatever and she responds. And you have this nice dialogue session with this person. Over time, with the initial or more of these dialogues, they will begin to attract you with romantic proposals and photos that attract because they are progressively sexy, scantily dressed and beautiful as models, however, they are probably not images of them. More than likely these are images you got from a catalog or online, or any good source you could find!
In the end, what will come is a very well written story with a request for money … something like “I came here from America for a modeling job that my roommate recommended to me” Which is credible, I mean! that the photos are of that caliber! “When I got here, my boss for the modeling contract wanted to have sex with me, but I’m a good Christian lady and I wouldn’t, so he beat me up and fired me and now I have no food.” If you are a softie or a basic humanitarian like me and you can’t bear to see people suffer, maybe your heart is a bit affected by this. If you’re a smart tough guy who says “Aww … to hell with this” and drops the ball completely, you definitely have my respect and admiration … my heart always seems to get in the way hehehe. You tough guys don’t need to read any further, this article is not for you!
But … if you’re like me, keep listening. “Can you help me?” NOW the alarms are really ringing … the little voice is no longer SMALL! But maybe you are a fool like me and you don’t listen either! And then you ask “Well, how much do you need?” She says “$ 50.00” God that’s not a lot of money (for many of us) and you wonder how to send it, so you ask and she hints at some money transfer service like WU. She has you contact them and send the money and then when she asks for it the WU transaction confirmation number and she showers you with thanks and maybe a few more photos that have gone from being fully dressed to being quite revealing. Keep in mind that this is a good Christian lady that we are talking about here. Now, I personally don’t have a real religion anymore, but I live in America or Canada, I think most of us know the principles and “good Christian ladies” won’t show you a picture of their breasts right away, if any. time, right? ? But being the horny guys that we are, we also ignore this warning. God, we are so dumb … so driven by our bodies!
Now let’s think about this for a minute, shall we? A woman who looks gorgeous as a model has contacted us to invite us to chat. She could have told you that she was falling in love with you (like, after you’ve known her for 2 hours). She engages you with many sweet talks and inquiries to find out about you. It might even ask you for personal information like your bank account, credit card, to fuel potentially deadly identity theft schemes and I know guys who have given these things! She is asking you for money and now you have sent it. Hit! Probably not … you’ve almost definitely been SCAMMED!
These women keep bleeding you and bleeding you for the same amount or maybe progressively more and more money with all kinds of sob stories and stories of their love for you. Sometimes it will even lead to something like “I want to be with you but I have no way of reaching you.” And YOU will come up with the “brilliant” idea of sending them money for a plane ticket. These women are SO good at this kind of manipulation … it seems like it was all your idea! As internet marketing geniuses, these girls have found their niche. And YOU are not the only guy they are talking to … NO WAY !! They’re so good at this they could have a hundred of us or even more kicking these dollars. Some of them work for bosses from home or in a boiler room setup where they are provided with everything they need to get their money and they get a good percentage of what they earn. Can you imagine the income that could be derived from a really good woman working in this market? We are talking about thousands and thousands of dollars a month! God! Am I in the wrong business?
Plus, unless you talk to them on the phone, it might even be a hairy, ugly Nigerian guy doing the manipulation! Even with a phone call, you CANNOT be sure! The internet is the best place to fake ANYTHING! Even male orgasms!
So the safest thing to do is to put down this soccer ball altogether! The moment she says she’s in or from Nigeria, and she’ll most likely say it right away because you’ll probably want to make a phone call eventually … she’ll probably even ask you to call! And you will know from the country code where it is … so there is no point in hiding this! Just when you have been mined for money or have the pleas floating in your head, RUN LIKE HELL !! Trust ALL your alarms !! They are there for a reason !!
If you are still not convinced of any of this, then YOU offer to fly with them! Or tell them that you are sending them a non-refundable e-ticket to travel to you. You will find out when you land in Lagos or by mentioning the words “non-refundable” whether you have something or not. And personally, if I flew there and she didn’t show up, I’d be leaving Lagos soon because Nigeria is A SICK PUPPY with more criminals per capita than kidnappers and cartel workers in the Colombian highlands.
I wrote this because I wanted to spare you the hurt feelings, despair, frustration, anger and shame that I have felt at being scammed. I hope I was able to help.
For you ladies who might have read this, I don’t know if the same thing happens to your lonely hearts as it does to guys, but if so, I warn you to be careful too!
Keep your money and be patient !! If it’s meant to be, your partner will show up sooner or later.