Many women have never experienced a mind-blowing orgasm in their entire lives, certainly not something that has happened very often, if at all.
Helping your woman achieve a body-shaking orgasm takes some work and a little planning. That may sound a bit too clinical, but one thing you simply need to understand is that for a woman to orgasm, there needs to be some buildup.
A quick caress in the dark isn’t really going to produce the kind of mind-blowing, body-shaking orgasm every woman would love to experience on a regular basis, so you’ll need to put in the time and effort if this is your goal.
Increasing the intensity is one of the key ways to boost sexual tension and you can do it using these three strategies.
#1 Plan it out
Make a date and plan to have some quality sex. Sit down together and discuss exactly what each of you would like most about a special night, just make sure you both have an opinion and that you are both happy with the ideas suggested.
#2 sweet talk
If you can start by leaving her little notes or text messages a couple of days beforehand, this will start to build up the sexual tension, leaving her desperate for the moment to come.
#3 Delay your own pleasure
Since, statistically, it takes a woman longer to orgasm than a man, it surely makes sense to give her more time to reach that state. If you’re helping her achieve a mind-blowing, body-shaking orgasm, then you’re going to have to last even longer and work that much harder.
Women are generally sexually aroused in a much different way than men, their emotions playing a big part in the process. While men can orgasm quickly, it takes time and effort for a woman to achieve a body-shaking orgasm.