You are a good girl? Maybe that’s why you’re still single. When I say “nice” girl, I don’t mean respectful, considerate of others, a loyal friend, and so on. When I say “nice” girl, I mean a woman who overcompensates with men long before they have earned it. She cooks him a four-star meal and serves it on a gold platter, buys his favorite brand shirts, drives two hours to get him exotic chocolate-dipped strawberries, all on the second date! OK ladies, we’ve all been there. We desperately do our best to hold on to a man because we believe that we are not good enough and we do our best to maintain the relationship at all costs. How does it show? The guy never calls you again. We have all been there at some point in our lives.
Here’s the lesson: everything you pursue in life slips away. Anything you clench with clenched fists slides through your fingers. When it comes to men, this is especially the case. Why? Because you feel like you don’t value yourself very much. He feels like you are trying to make up for your unworthiness by giving him things prematurely in the relationship. A woman is also desperate when she is overcompensating.
According to the Rules, a “Creature unlike any other”, on the other hand, will do the opposite. She values herself enough to know that Hey he is lucky that he has chosen to be with he. She can take it or leave it! That means she doesn’t cook gourmet meals for him for the first 6 months of their relationship. If anything, she’ll feed you hot dogs on a bun with ketchup, and her dazzling smile. For dessert, he will not make tiramisu. Rather, she will serve you a hostess Twinkie, again with a smile. After six months, she may serve you hamburgers and fries made with ground beef that you bought at the grocery store down the street. He will appreciate it more, because she didn’t give him everything up front!
As women, we must learn to pass out one Jelly Bean at a time at the beginning of a relationship. A woman should set the pace for the relationship, especially in the beginning. Why? Men love instant gratification. The first thing a man sees when he sees a woman is her physical attributes. If you give him your body, your mind, your soul, your money and your devotion, all on the second date or even in the first 6 months of dating, he will lose his appreciation for you because he did not have to earn those things. of you.
So remember you are the prize. If you keep that concept in the foreground in your mind at all times, you will start acting like a “Creature unlike any other” and then he will treat you like the girl of his dreams. Fake it until you get it if this feeling is not natural for you! Until next time, remember, keep him mad at you, not at you.